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Tips for encouraging kids

Picture this: Your child runs into the room, elated to show you the results of her latest math test – 100%! A perfect score! “Great job!” You say, giving a high five. “You’re so smart!”

Seems like a pretty typical scenario, right? We know that encouragement, as in the scenario above, is hugely important for kids’ development, and in all likelihood you’ve probably had a similar exchange with your own kids at some point. While it is important to praise kids for their accomplishments, what many of us may not have considered is the way in which we praise kids. As it turns out, the words we use to encourage children can have a profound effect on them both now, and in the future.

Praise Your Kids Often!

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Talking With Your Kids About Tragic Events

As a parent, I am still processing the horrific events from Friday. It goes beyond any nightmare I could possibly imagine and my heart hurts for each and every student, parent and family in that community.

Kids are naturally curious and may come across the news or overhear details about the tragedy at Sandy Hook Elementary school and we all need to be prepared to talk about it with them in a way that is appropriate. 

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Homebound Students and Virtual Education

Online Education Can Help Hospital Homebound Students Succeed

When I took on a pilot program two years ago to serve hospital homebound students in one district in Florida, little did I know that today I would serving districts in ten states, with continued growth expected to come.  I am so committed to the expansion of this program, as virtual education is such a wonderful fit for these kids, and I have personally witnessed countless success stories.

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How to Inspire Your Kids to Give Back this Holiday Season

Lists of presents filling the page front to back, hundreds of dollars spent on gifts, a warm holiday dinner, presents too plentiful to fit under the tree – these are occurrences that the average American family may be accustomed to during the holiday season.  In the midst of it all, we often forget about the millions of families to which these blessings are not guaranteed. How can we teach our kids about the importance and relevance of giving back and the countless ways to do so this holiday season?

OKVA Student Giving Back
OKVA student delivering 1095 holiday cards to the local Red Cross to send to the troops.

The Importance of Giving Back

  1. Explain to your children that not every family has the luxury of purchasing and receiving gifts or having a warm meal during the holiday season. A great way to convey the importance of holiday giving to younger kids is with books such as The Berenstain Bears and the Joy of Giving by Jan and Michael Berenstain, and Angel Pig and the Hidden Christmas by Jan Waldron and David McPhail.
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Parent Support and Encouragement During the Online School Year

The National Parent Network offers support, help and encouragement. 

I know I have mentioned the K12 National Parent Network before, but it has so much great information for new and experienced families, it's worth mentioning over and over again.  Available to current K12 families via your OLS, this support resource offers live workshops, helpful tutorial videos, and lots of downloadable resources to review when you have that spare five or ten minutes in your day -- does spare time even exist anymore? 

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Seeing Struggle As An Opportunity

Seeing Struggle As An Opportunity

NPR: Struggling for Smarts

This recent story featured on NPR:  Struggle For Smarts? How Eastern And Western Cultures Tackle Learning is one that I believe every parent and grandparent, as well as individuals in general, including children should hear. Take about 9 minutes to listen to this story about “struggle in relation to learning".

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Parent Resources for a New School Year

K12 National Parent Network

Now that we are well into the start of the school year, I hope that all of the parents out there are getting into the swing of things. And by the swing of things I mean, you are getting the hang of schedules, adapting the lesson plans to fit the needs of your children and finding the humor and joy in every day.

It can be said that being an online education family requires practice, patience and a great sense of humor. If you stop and think about it -- that can be said about any facet of parenting.  And just like parenting, the moment you start getting comfortable, you are challenged with learning something else! 

Have no fear, because whether you're new or a K¹² veteran, we understand that you will no doubt hit some rough patches along the road of learning.  We all do -- and it's why we created the K¹² National Parent Network.

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Successes: Big or Small - They All Count!

K12 Kids are Amazing and so are K12 Parents!Back to School Time 

We are a few weeks into the back to school experience. Parents around the country are starting to relax, getting used to newly created routines. Even I noticed that this morning, both of my kids seem to be accepting of the one standard clock time that we need to follow. Usually they run on their own time schedule and I swear it's not based on any time that matches one of the many clocks in my house! 

There is no doubt that this time of year is hard on parents. Let me repeat that: this time of year is very hard on parents!  We all want our kids to be successful in life and we make choices and decisions based on what we believe will help them acheive all that they can. It's true that we all have different reasons for making the choices we do for our families but it definitley helps to  hear from one another to help remind us that success is possible.  Below is a collection of successes shared on our Facebook page by K12 parents giving a shout out to their children as they completed their first few weeks of school. 

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Five Suggestions for New Online Learning Coaches

As we gear up for a new school year, I wanted to offer five suggestions for our new learning coaches out there as they begin to learn how to manage living the online education lifestyle. 

Hoaglund Kids First Day of 2012-2013

Plan but Be Flexible

Whenever I start something new – a new school year, hobby, route, I know that the key is to plan as best as I can.  It’s no different when it comes to being a learning coach. You have to spend some time planning out what your children are going to do and how it’s all going to be managed. 

Many people don’t consider that when your kids are schooling online at home, making sure the household stuff gets done has to be accounted for and planned.  Dinner, the endless piles of laundry, chores, family down time – it all has to be managed.

Life rarely goes as planned though, so you have to be flexible.  Your internet access may go down, your little one may get strep, or you as their parent/learning coach may get the flu (let’s hope this NEVER happens) –whatever the case, make a point to plan for rainy day scenarios too!

Here are some great sites to help you create a plan:

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Doubters Don't Know the Facts About Online Learning

Tips for Dealing with Doubters (Including Yourself)

Dealing with Doubters Whether you’re new to online learning, or have been at it for some time, at some point you will likely encounter people who express their doubts about your decision to educate your children at home. Sometimes, the doubters don’t intend to be negative; they simply don’t know the facts about online learning. Other times, you may encounter outright criticism. Perhaps you are even having doubts yourself, and are feeling nervous or unsure about your capabilities. These doubts are completely normal and will likely subside as you and your children become more comfortable with your new role as Learning Coach and settle into a routine.  As for how to deal with those other doubters, these tips can help you decide how to respond.

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