In her recent book Quiet: The Power of Introverts, author Susan Cain argues that they are, and said in a recent interview that “education, by its nature, favors the extrovert.” In her fascinating TED talk, and a recent article in the Guardian, Cain dispels some common misconceptions about introversion, and gives a powerful argument for why the world needs introverts.
“Without introverts,” Cain writes, “the world would be devoid of Newton's theory of gravity, Einstein's theory of relativity, WB Yeats's The Second Coming, Chopin's nocturnes, Proust's In Search of Lost Time, Peter Pan, Orwell's Nineteen Eighty-Four, The Cat in the Hat, Charlie Brown, the films of Steven Spielberg, Google (co-founded by introvert Larry Page) and Harry Potter.”
And yet, introverts are taught from an early age to despise their introversion and to conform to a world that values extroversion. Cain says introversion, defined simply as a preference for low-stimulation versus high stimulation environments, including social situations, is treated as “a second-class personality trait, somewhere between a disappointment and a pathology”.
In the interview, Cain says this societal preference for extroversion is evident as early as pre-school, when adults are commonly heard to comment on children who are quiet or shy (although she points out, shyness and introversion are not the same thing, and not all introverts are shy.) Later, in school, the real damage is done, as introverted children learn that they “have to act like extroverts.” She says “as soon as they get to school they will be repeatedly encouraged to join group activities, even if they would prefer not to. It's all very well-meaning but it has the cumulative effect of telling the child that their natural preferences for how they spend their time are not valid.”